Over two years ago, when my oldest was in first grade at a local public school, and I began exploring the idea of homeschooling, the term "morning time" kept coming up in various places where I researched. Some homeschoolers term this "morning basket" or "circle time," but the principle of the concept remains the same, …
Lent and Easter family traditions and resources
As Lent approaches this week, I wanted to share some traditions and resources that we've used for our family in the past. Before you dive into what you'd like to do, though, I encourage you to read this post I wrote last year around Easter. As always, the principles and motivation behind what we do …
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How we schedule our homeschool year-round using sabbath weeks
We just finished our sabbath week break from our homeschool, and I thought I'd share how this works for our family in case others want to consider it. For the most part, we school year-round. This is very flexible, and depends greatly on our summer traveling schedule accompanying my husband to camps and mission trips. …
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A Day in our Homeschool: some principles, rhythms, values and resources
Several people have asked me recently to share what a day in our homeschool looks like. I want to begin by sharing some principles I've found helpful in the two years we've been homeschooling. I really feel like these principles can be applied regardless of if you homeschool - any time that you have with …
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Motivation behind our goal-setting; the empty promise of self-improvement vs. growth for the purpose of blessing others
It's February, so maybe the talk of goals and new-year-new-you has died down a bit, but the self-imposed pressure can still linger, right? Those who are successful are sharing about their victories in their goals of weight loss, new habits, new learned skills, etc., and the temptation to do something and do it well is …
January Family Tradition: An Annual Memory Box
Before I had children old enough to even understand what we were doing, a wise momma suggested this idea of keeping a memory box each year. It’s become one of our family’s favorite traditions, and can really be started anytime! Through this idea developed one of our family values - the art of remembrance. "I …
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Sowing seeds with toddlers; my answer to how to disciple a two-year-old
Trying to do anything intentional with a two-year-old can feel a bit like walking with them on roller skates, pulling them along while they try to balance and don't yet know how to even pick up their foot and glide! I recently had a friend share with me that one of her goals for the …
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My Word of the Year for 2022
It never fails; when I go through the process of my powersheets (from cultivatewhatmatters.com), a theme begins to show up through what I journal and sketch as I pray through a focus for the upcoming season. Contrary to the past several years, I didn't really have a lot of big, audacious goals that came to …
Obedient, cheerful generosity over practicality; some post-Christmas reflections
The post-Christmas blues. It hit me even harder than usual this year, which is weird because I had it all planned to be the opposite. You know, I had planned on leaving the decorations out until the twelfth day of Christmas, and keeping the Christmas music playing, and other similar festivities. But, for some reason, …
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Where is joy really to be found? Cheerfulness in our duties
The Proverbs 31 woman. When you read those words, what is your first reaction? (If you've never read it, go take a moment and read it first.) Perhaps an anxious overwhelm and biting of nails as you wonder how you could possibly imitate her? Or do you swing in the other direction and smirk with …
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Christmas Gift Ideas based on what we’re gifting our children
Years ago we heard the idea of giving gifts that fit into these categories... something you wantsomething you needsomething to wearsomething to read For the most part, this guides our gift-giving for our children, although there are times when something we want to give them doesn't necessarily fit into these categories...and that's fine. 😉 I'm …
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Advent Traditions and Rhythms
It’s that time of the year when our schedules fill up quickly, and we usually can slip into one of two ditches if we are not careful. One ditch involves never slowing down long enough to consider and choose family rhythms and traditions due to the feeling of being overwhelmed by all the things. When …
Our 2021 Advent and Christmas Plans
Consider this blog post the "what the Gaineys are doing for Advent and Christmas" post. I simply wanted to get this shared sooner rather than later in case you're considering plans for your own family. However, I have a more important post that will be coming next regarding the principles behind family rhythms in Advent …
What do Christian faithfulness and Christian friendship have in common? Part 2: True encouragement in friendship
In Part 1 we talked about Christian faithfulness and how obedience in our work glorifies God. One of the ways our work can be God-honoring is through it's implications for how it affects the church, too! I've been learning through this webinar that one of the greatest ways we can encourage others around us is …
What do Christian faithfulness and Christian friendship have in common? Part 1 – Faithfulness in our work
One of our pastors preached on the parable of the talents recently, and the truths in this teaching seemed to coincide with several ideas that God has been teaching me lately regarding faithfulness in my work. Be sure to check out the sermon here. If you're not familiar with this parable that Jesus tells, it …
Two responses to fear
I found it interesting recently in my reading through the book of Mark 5 the reaction of fear that appears on two different occasions. The first occurs at the beginning of Mark 5, when Jesus crosses the sea into the country of the Gerasenes. He immediately encounters a demon-possessed man whose condition seems hopeless - …
To the married, Christian woman: Submitting to your own husband vs. all the other women
It sounds odd, right? Most Christian women wouldn't claim to be submitting their time and energy to other women rather than their husbands. However, about a year ago, a friend shared a podcast with me that convicted me to see how I was doing that very thing. Now, if you ask most Christian women who …
Intentional holiday plans…both for homeschooling and non-homeschooling families
I know the busy season of holidays can come upon us rather quickly, but I wanted to share a resource that my family will be using for the weeks leading up to Reformation Day (October 31), Thanksgiving and Christmas. Christmas, and sometimes Easter, tend to be holidays that Christ-followers try to celebrate in an intentional …
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Halloween: A hallway to hospitality
When we first moved into our neighborhood ten years ago, we were the youngest family, surrounded mainly by elderly couples. We didn’t have children at the time, and the neighborhood remained pretty dark and quiet on Halloween night. But through the past decade, younger families have slowly moved into the area, which has encouraged us …
The Race Set Before Us; Fighting the “if onlys”
I read a very familiar passage during my time in the Word recently. "Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the …
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Part 2: Sustenance in Christ alone yields a dutiful, glorifying life
In Part 1 of this post, I addressed the ditches we can slip into regarding the topic of self-care. While both ditches focus on ourselves rather than the Lord, they will yield nothing more than bitterness and temporary self-glorification. Since I'm talking a lot about the second ditch of elevating self-care, please let me caution …
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Part 1: To the women in the ditches of self-care, or those feeling lost in the pursuit of it
I believe an idol has crept into the church today that possibly started withwell-meaning purpose. Most idols usually do, after all. Self-care has become a popular topic in society lately. I thought about listing a few of the quotes that appeared when I googled self-care, but I'll just let you try it yourself. Many of …
Replacing horizontal expectations with a vertical hope, Part 2
As mentioned in Part 1 of this topic, despite the depravity of the human heart, we tend to go on heaping expectations on each other. And these expectations often go unmet, and we respond with shock, bitterness, anger, etc. about practically everything. Why do we do this? I think the answer can be seen in …
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Replacing horizontal expectations with a vertical hope, Part 1
I recently chatted with a dear friend who is about to move overseas to do mission work full-time. As part of the training she undergoes beforehand, she takes an inventory of her expectations in practically every area. Just hearing about it overwhelmed me, so I cannot imagine what she is feeling about having to do …
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Our 13 Day Colorado RV Vacation Travel Journal
While traveling on our 2021 family vacation, I began a travel journal more as a way for me to remember and record God's goodness as we traveled on our longest trip yet. So many people enjoyed our journeys, so I decided to put it in one massive post here, just for fun. I tried to …
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Freedom in Christ, even in too many bananas
We've been preparing for our longest RV trip yet, which means making far too many pink and orange highlighted lists and checking them a gazillion times a day. When it came time to order groceries (Instacart is my best friend), I requested 12 bananas. My shopper even asked in the chat to clarify, "You want …
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Practical Ideas for Life-Giving Rhythms
Like Jesus, we need to be resolved to have fellowship with our Father. It won’t simply happen. It doesn’t have to look one single way, but the determination to do it needs to be there. This can even look differently in various seasons, but if we value it, we will make it happen somehow because we …
Pursuing Rhythms of Remembrance leads to Self-Denial and Deeper Dependence on God
I started this blog series with a focus on how we need these rhythms of returning to Jesus' feet for renewal. But let's take that one step further. We also need these rhythms to help us remember. Remember when we walked through Mark 6? Well only a few short chapters later, in Mark 8, we …
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Rhythms of Renewal: Responding with compassion like Jesus to the interruptions
As we endeavor to trust our Great High Priest and pursue rhythms of renewal, there will undoubtedly be times when interruptions come our way. How do we view these and with what attitude can we approach them? Are they actually interruptions? That's what we're going to begin examining this week as we continue our journey …
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Seeking Rhythms of Renewal and Responding to the Immediate
As mentioned in my last post, I want us to take a moment to look at Jesus, our great high priest, and some patterns we see for how he lived his human life, specifically as explained in the book of Mark. This week, we'll begin by digging into what we can observe about Jesus from …
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Pursuing Rhythms of Renewal: Trusting our Great High Priest who calls us to rest and perseverance
In last week's post, I began this topic of habit training for ourselves by focusing on morning rhythms of renewal, and the foundation for understanding our need for this. I know you're likely ready to get to the how of this, but I think it's helpful to continue focusing on the principles behind why we …
Habit Training for Mamas: Why do we need rhythms of renewal?
When I first started to pay more attention to my own health and fitness habits after becoming a mama, my goal was simple: to lose weight and have more energy. The Lord took that simple desire to begin to show me where I needed to develop discipline in many areas of life, and one of …
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Everyday rhythms that reflect the goodness of God: Breakfast and beauty at our tables
Biscuits with bacon or sausage every weekday morning. I can still remember my dad asking how many biscuits I wanted for the day as I pulled my drowsy self to our round, wooden table and joined the rest of the family. I then watched him scoop out peanut butter and pour honey over the pile …
When God fights the battle but still calls us to be on the battlefield
Would you describe any circumstances in your life recently as feeling like a battle? Even if you, like me, don't leave your home much and are simply encountering daily life with your own family, there can be days where it feels like we are fighting for something. I recently found encouragement and exhortation from a …
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The art of remembrance in our family traditions of Easter
“Jesus stole my marshmallow!” The indignant eyes of my almost three-year-old glared at me in disbelief as we examined his first resurrection bun—the classic crescent-wrapped marshmallow that disappears after baking and symbolizes an “empty tomb.” Previous visions of theological discussions to help my child understand substitutionary atonement were instead dashed and replaced with the ideology …
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Modeling and teaching love: It starts with Christ
“Above all else, love each other deeply” (1 Peter 4:8 NIV). I’ve been so struck by these words recently that I even purchased a watercolor painting of this passage on Etsy, and hung it on our living room wall. Why? Because it’s definitely an area where I need improvement in my own heart and home. …
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Weary in body and soul? Cultivate remembrance.
How to respond to weariness - consider cultivating remembrance of God's goodness, truth and beauty.
Why we chose to switch to homeschooling Part IV
How did God take me from being fearful about homeschooling to being excited about it in ONE WEEK?
Proverbs, Making Plans and Chore Charts
We started easing back into our rhythms and routines this week, as well as creating fresh ones, and I've been so encouraged by the work of the Holy Spirit in my heart through this process. You see, I love a plan. I love structure. And I fully believe we do well to have plans in …
A New Tradition: Christmas Tea menu and the heart behind it all
It's no secret that I've read like 6 books by Sally Clarkson in 2020. I'm truly so grateful for how God is using her wisdom to help shape my heart and our home to be more like Jesus. I highly recommend listening to her podcasts or grabbing a book (or 6) that she's written! One …
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A Different Transformation: Health, Heart & Home Stewardship
A different kind of transformation that reflects how stewardship with my health has affected stewardship with my heart and home through the years.
A gift you can give your family that won’t cost you a penny
Consider giving this unique and impactful gift to your family this year
Why we chose to switch to homeschooling Part III
The beginning steps I took when I first felt God shifting our family to consider homeschool, and how he directed our desires through others.
Drawing Near Our Children During Bad Attitudes
How are we to respond to bad attitudes and bad behavior in our children? Although we seldom feel like it, we need to draw near to them.
I know it now, Daddy
A glimpse into some things I learned about my momma following the death of my father.
Our 2020 Advent Plans and Traditions
A few weeks ago I received an email about planning for Advent - and I was SO grateful for the reminder! Honestly, I've never thought about it this early, and I've enjoyed spending the last few weeks really thinking through and considering what we plan to do this year for the Advent season. I wanted …
Simple but Special: Book Celebration of Heidi
We held our first book celebration tonight and it was enjoyed by all, I think! (Warning: contains spoiler alerts😉.) This was my first time reading Heidi and it was truly delightful. I simply forgot to celebrate the end of our first two read alouds this school year, but was determined not to miss a chance …
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Why we chose to switch to homeschooling Part II
How God began to prepare my heart for our switch to homeschooling long before I realized what He was doing.
Why We Chose to Switch to Homeschooling Part I
When others hear that we chose to switch to homeschooling pre-COVID-19, I receive lots of questions as to the reason why. Let me start by saying this: By sharing, I'm certainly not indicating that every family should do what we're doing. Goodness, I have PLENTY on my mind with my own family...I don't have energy …
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